Tony Mowbray, discussing the tumultuous events following his surprise diagnosis of bowel cancer, explained his health journey and its impact on his professional life.
Tony Mowbray said “Out of the blue my illness was diagnosed. I was still Sunderland manager this time a year ago and my house got burgled a year yesterday. I was at Sunderland in a board meeting and I got a call from my young son so I left that meeting and raced home to see the house full of police officers and everything. So the start of this year started really badly for us as a family. And then pretty strangely – but I understand football – I lost my job at Sunderland. I then had an amazing phone call and meeting about joining Birmingham City and the plans that football club had, they saw me as the guy who could bring that together and take that on a journey hopefully back to the Premier League and I was happy to do that. And then my world came crashing down really. I’d had a doctors’ appointment through the League Managers Association to go to Manchester to have a check over – you have one every year, like a full-body MOT really, everything, your hearing, your eyesight, everything. And I went along and out of the blue… part of it was having a colonoscopy, because I’d mentioned that I was having some issues.”
Recounting his realization and initial treatment experiences, Tony shared his deeply personal struggle with the diagnosis and its emotional toll on his family.
Tony Mowbray said “The way I would go to the toilet had changed so they had a look and I got diagnosed with bowel cancer out of nowhere really. It’s quite shattering. I remember sitting in a hospital bed in Manchester and my kids had tears in their eyes, not sure if I was going to get through it or not to be honest – I was very, very ill. Some days I was feeling great and other days I would collapse and black out and find myself on the kitchen floor. I sat down with my wife and phoned the chief executive at Birmingham and told him that health and family is what life’s about and I need to get myself right so I left that job. I would like to say on record that both Sunderland and Birmingham City have been amazing to me. It’s been a year without work, without money, and yet those football clubs have looked after me and honoured the contracts that I’d signed. I still have issues, I still at this moment am not 100% ready for work. I’m thinking in a couple of months hopefully my body will settle down after a recent operation that I had and I do want to go back to work. Football’s in my blood, it’s what I do. That’s what I want to do, somewhere down the line – my body’s not quite ready yet.”
Two lines of advice that Tony emphasized for others concerning early detection and medical consultations highlighted his call to action.
Tony Mowbray said “I spoke to my doctors and what they’re saying is it doesn’t need to happen. If there’s something not right, not normal in your life, whether that be prostate and it’s more difficult to go to the toilet… for me it was the back end of my body and it was different. It wasn’t that I couldn’t go, it was that it was different and I wanted it checking out. And so they stick a camera up and if I didn’t do that I probably would have not been here today or I would have been in a situation where I wouldn’t have been able to have an operation and recover. The message from me loud and clear is for men particularly, but this is for both sexes of course. I know men generally don’t like to go to the doctor. I feel like I’m a normal working class lad from the North East, I don’t really want to go and see the doctor. I’ve been fortunate all my working career to have a club doctor and that’s been a big help – and without that club doctor I might not have been here today. The club doctor was ultimately the one who said let’s have a colonoscopy. So if there’s something not normal, don’t be afraid to go and see your doctor. Make an appointment, I know they’re difficult sometimes to get, but make one and go and have a chat with the doctor. And if they think colonoscopy or they want to do a test for your prostate, it’s worth it because it’s not only you, think about your family. If you’ve got kids, they want to see their dad until he’s an old man so they can take him on holiday or push him around in a wheelchair or whatever it might be.”